Gary Calhoun’s writing explores relationships, belonging, and navigating life in a way that is relatable and practical.  Before turning to writing, he enjoyed a decades-long career as a clinical psychologist. People from all walks and stages of life have sought his guidance. Over the years his waiting room filled with clients ranging from teenage girls with eating disorders to professional athletes. The collection of essays you will find as you visit this site are written with purpose. The goal is to provide practical and insightful knowledge with a short read. You will at times find an essay that arrives at just the right moment in your life. Please share the site with those you think would enjoy and benefit from the essays.